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Is it a real friendship?

Hello and good morrow to you all. How are you on this rainy as hell day? Great I hope. You know the rain didn't bother me today. Probably because I was inside and had no where of importance to go...it worked out pretty well. Rain is good though, I just don't like it to be raining when I have somewhere to go.
Today is the second to last day of my challenge to update everyday. Yeah! I feel strange about it though, I don't know why. I think that I haven't really made such a big impact on this and I could...I just haven't.
Sometimes alot of different things go through my head and I don't know what to do about it. That's kind of why I want to be a writer...Why i try so hard to work at things and clear my head of things that bother me. It doesn't always work though.
I realized that I can come off as cold to some people and I don't know why. Its not like I don't try to be nice. Its just that sometimes I don't know what to say so I don't know, it comes off badly.
So I probably need to work on my conversational skills. Do you have problems like that? Meeting new people?
Maybe its that I just have a hard time relaxing.....or I get too much in my head that I don't realize what is going on.
I mean it works both ways too. If someone is hard to talk to hold a conversation with then it'll be kind of pointless right?
Oh an i cant stand when I am the only one who makes an attempt to talk and ask questions.
"So how are you going?", "Fine," "Okay cool. What is it that you like to do?" "Nothing really," and so on and so on, that it becomes tasking and lame. Those people who always are the ones to wait till you call to get into contact with them but they never talk to you or anything otherwise, those are awful too. I mean what kind of friendship is that.
So I guess you realize that today's post was about me ranting about why some friendships don't work...
Words of advice for today:Friendship is a two way street. If one person is doing all the work then the friendship isn't really a friendship is it? It becomes a task. Real friends don't have to wait for you to call or text or whatever...They make just as much effort to make the friendship work as you do.
Ciao for now and Laters And Auf Wiedersehen!!!
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  1. Marie RiverAugust 6, 2012 at 2:02 AM

    Truly inspiring post and I totally agree. I need to work on my people skills too. =D

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